I already know the answer to this. My daughter was 21 this year. I promised her a spa day with her mum i.e. me. She went to OZ at the time I was going to book it for. It was postponed. I have only managed to save £200. The day we both really want comes for £300 but there is a day we would be happy with for £200. As it was for her 21st I feel a bit mean not giving her the day she wants but she insists the £200 one is okay. Am I a skinflint or am I sensible - given my last post. Please please dont think bad of me whatever your view.